MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Thursday 27th Oct, 2016

GROW IN GRACE

TEXT: 2nd Peter 3:18
"But grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and for ever. Amen".

Beloved, to run life's race, you need grace. Grace is simply God in the race. So with God in the race, your life becomes a platform to showcase grace.

As a citizen of Gods kingdom, you are a full part taker of the Grace of God which is released and showcased on mankind as Titus 2:11 tells us.

As you grow in the grace and race, you would be faced with challenges at different points in time which will require help from God and that help is Grace. At every point in life's development, there are challenges but the level of your grace available in you and with you would make you overcome that phase. so you need to grow in grace to remain a victor at all times.

In order to grow in grace;

1. You have to ACCEPT Grace because what you accept is what can benefit you.

2. You have to be DEVOTED to the word of God. Joshua 1:8 so it is important that you get devoted to the word of God because the word of God makes it clear; the grace of God.

3. You have to APPLY and PRACTISE the word as James 1:22 tells us.

Furthermore, Grace gives you a platform. It also renders help on the platform to bring salvation. All these processes requires growth in grace to be accomplished.

As you grow in grace, you would become a great person.

PRAYER FOCUS:
Lord, I choose the part of growth in my challenges and your grace I seek.

STUDY FOCUS:
Isaiah 11:1-3, Zachariah 9:11-12

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Wednesday 26th Oct, 2016

WALK BY FAITH

TEXT: 2nd Corinthians 5:7
"For we walk by Faith and not by sight".

Wow! So much has been said already about Faith but simple take note that faith talk is simply in exhaustive and it is a domain we operate in.

Friends, the God we believe is the God we depend on hence becomes the God we have faith in. Take note that the builder and maker of all things is God and He is above all other. Some people know and acknowledge His place as God while some others don’t. Some regard and refer Him by certain names while some regard Him but don’t find a befitting name to describe Him like it was the case with the Athenians until Paul came to bail them out by in fusing knowledge to them as seen in Acts 17:23-26.

Friend, even God wants you to reach him by faith as Hebrews 11:6 says. Faith is related to Hope as without it, the object of ones happiness would remain far off because faith is like a magnet.
Irrespective where you are in life’s placement, with faith you are bound for the next phase of your shinning as actions of faith connects you to God’s realm of release of blessings.

Why watch your life continue in a way you are not
comfortable with whereas the key of your excitement and blessing is around you. Don’t die there, take a FAITH step and see how much of life you would get.

It took the woman with the issue of blood a step of faith to gain her miracle. Do you know what could be running through her mind when she got healed? I suspect thoughts of this nature. Oh! Why didn’t Jesus move around earlier when i first experienced the challenge; Oh! why didn’t a neighbor or family member tell me about this man Jesus all along.
The list goes on but does this paint a picture of someone?
Oh! Yes it does and the good thing is that you too can smile again only if you decide to take a faith step again today.

Don’t stop taking faith steps for your miracle until it works for you because it works always but your mind need align to its ability to work for you.
You please God when you walk by faith.


PRAYER FOCUS:
Lord, I refuse to walk in flesh and sight but by faith.

STUDY FOCUS:
Philippians 1:1-6, Isaiah 52:1-3.


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President Obama ridiculed on Snapchat by daughter Sasha

President Barack Obama has disclosed that his youngest daughter recently mocked him on Snapchat.

The US leader said Sasha had recorded him discussing the social network at a family dinner and then quietly posted to get reaction to her friends.

It is not the first time the president has discussed his 15-year-old's online activities.

In July, he said she also tweets, leading several media outlets to try to identify her account.
It remains secret.

Likewise a copy of the described Snapchat post has not been made public. Messages posted to the app are designed to disappear after being viewed or within a short period of time, but there are ways to circumvent the restrictions.

President Obama made a surprise appearance on 
Jimmy Kimmel's chat show earlier this week

"Sasha gave me instructions on Snapchat," he said.

"One night at dinner we're sitting there, and I had read that Snapchat was becoming really popular among her age group. So, I said: 'So, tell me about Snapchat.'

"So, she starts explaining stuff - you can make little
faces on your picture, and this and that and the other.

"And at the end of it, Michelle and I are sitting there. And I said: 'Isn't this interesting?'

"And I started talking to Michelle about the implications of social media and what all this means.

"Only to find out she was recording us the whole time, and then sent to her friends afterwards: 'This is my dad lecturing us on the meaning of social media.'

"And she took a picture of herself sort of looking
bored."

The president added that his wife - who joined Snapchat in June - and his eldest daughter Malia had "loved" the post.

The show's host, Jimmy Kimmel, joked that the event represented a security breach.

Email leaks

The president also mentioned that his own iPhone was limited to receiving emails and browsing the internet, and would not take photos, play music or make calls.

"My rule has been throughout my presidency, that I assume that someday, some time, somebody will read this email," he said.

"So, I don't send any email that at some point won't be on the front page of the newspapers."

Many of the features of the President's iphone are blocked

Hillary Clinton,who is campaigning to be the next commander-in-chief - has been beset by a scandal over leaked emails, while her rival Donald Trump has been accused of using outdated software on his company's email servers.

President Obama also said that he expected technology to preoccupy his successor.

"One of the biggest challenges are,how do we continue to get all the benefits of being in cyberspace
but protect our finances, protect our privacy?

"How do we balance issues of security? Because people expect the government to monitor this enough to protect them from bad guys.

"This is going to be a big debate that we're going to have for a long time."

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Monday 24th Oct, 2016

PRAY FOR THE CHURCH

TEXT: Matthew 16:18 And I say unto thee that thou art Peter and upon this rock I would build my church and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.

At this crucial time was Jesus looking for who amongst his disciples was connected to heaven’s frequency for the time they were and only Peter proved by his outstanding response as Jesus concurred with his words in the opening text.

Note that Jesus was passionate about the move of building a body, a group to be called the church and needed the disciples to have understanding of the concept and process of building this church. It is upon the knowledge that Christ is the son of the living God and our Passover Lamb that the church needs be built and only Peter then by his quick and exhaustive response saw Christ as the initiator of that glorious to be CHURCH which you and I are members today having come into it by the gate of SALVATION concerning which even angels desired to looked into and the prophets have inquired and searched diligently, who prophesied of the grace that should come unto you as 1st Peter 1:10,13 establishes. Glory to God!

The church was founded as a solution and not a problem. She was established by revelation for dominion over works of darkness. She was made rich for the continual spread of the gospel of our Lord Jesus as Zachariah 1:17 tells us, therefore to maintain her ground and course, she needs to be constantly prayed for and prayed with.

Beloved, you are a member of the body of Christ and you are loved by God so ensure you play your part today by constantly praying for the CHURCH.

The church is not just the building or place of meeting for worship but a greater part of the idea is about you.

Who makes up the church system?

1.BROTHERS AND SISTERS
Hebrews 13:1 - Let Brotherly love continue. It takes love of God to pray constantly for your brother and for your sister, both the known or unknown, both those hurting you or not. You pray for the constant unity and advancement of the purpose for establishing the church which even said “…gate of hell shall not prevail against it.

2. BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN LEADERSHIP/ AUTHORITY
Colossians 4:2-3 - It is good to pray consistently for your leaders in the local church where you worship so rather than join others without knowledge to criticize and castigate them, do pray for them.

3. BROTHERS AND SISTERS LOST IN SIN
John 10:16 - Jesus called them other sheep I have...". Dear, pray for souls lost in sin and in the grip of the god of this world as 2nd Corinthians 4:4 tells us.

Remember, their emancipation is your rejoicing and Gods glory is revealed the more in the CHURCH.

PRAYER FOCUS:
Lord, I am the church you built. Help me Lord to constantly pray for the Brethren.

STUDY FOCUS: Romans 1:16-17; Micah 4:1-2.

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Sunday 23rd Oct, 2016

LET GOD’S WORD JUDGE

TEXT: Psalm 82: 8
Arise God to judge the earth for all nation belong to you.

It’s a fact that a man’s judgment is communicated by his words meaning his words spoken is his judgment passed, little wonder people take seriously a man’s words.

A peculiar and particulate thing about human being is that the same God’s judgment amidst the heavenly host which reads “Let us make man” in Gen. 1:26 is what gave man a chance to life. It is no doubt that man having license to choices and the consequences of his choices is now liable to think freely and similarly act same as this brings us to a category of persons referred to as “WICKED PEOPLE, WITH WICKED THOUGHTS”.

Sometimes in life, you run into business discussion or other forms of correction with people of this nature and they pour on you a bit of their contents which is wickedness, and you are tempted to quickly respond in similar way forgetting that you have the mind of Christ as Philippians 2:5 states.

Therefore, it becomes an act of maturity to allow for God’s word to still rule your mind and guide your steps and actions without retributing or paying evil back to the person.

What happens when you let God’s word judge:

1. PEACE WITH GOD
There’s a feeling of excitement you have knowing you are at peace with God your Maker and this could come by when you choose rather to let God’s word judge.

2. PEACE WITHIN YOURSELF
Philipians 4:7 “God’s peace shall keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus". Glory to God!. This state of life can’t be bought by money or addictive but you could allow it play out naturally. Friend! For the sake of peace within, let God’s word judge.

3. PROGRESS
This is a state of constant movement in a direction of pursuit. “When man’s way please God, even enemies would be at peace" meaning everything would begin to workout smoothly and beautifully. That would be your experience in Jesus name. Come on my friend, love progress over stagnation and allow God’s word judge you.

4. PLEASURE
Job 36:11 Pleasures come by obeying therefore "No obedience, No release of pleasures" which renews your youth as the eagle. It’s wisdom to accept pleasures over pain so allow Gods word have a free course today and see how beautiful your day would turn out.

5. PRESERVATION God’s word is capable of shielding you so allow it today to do it’s work as you but allow Gods word to judge your Moves, Motives and Memories.

PRAYER FOCUS:
Lord, Judge me by your word and grace me for your judgment in Jesus name.

STUDY FOCUS:
Exodus 1:1-5, Phillipians 4:1-4.

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#Saturday 22nd Oct, 2016

JUDGE BY GOD’S WORD

TEXT: John 5: 30

It’s an act of cowardice to die before ones real death takes place although many have left life centre stage too quickly because of the judgment sentence passed on them or with them. In a world framed and formed by God’s word; there can be no better judge other than same word. Therefore ensure your judgments over issues are based on the provisions or content of the WORD because only then can it pass the QA (Quality Assurance) test and be upheld in High quarter.

From scriptures, Joshua & Caleb had a sense in contrast to that of the majority as this helps to buttress that MINORITY with God’s word is considered highly before God than majority without an iota of it. Little wonder in Ezekiel, He said “…I sought for a man…”.

Joshua and Caleb had their mind on the judgment by God’s word as that only can save a dying soul or situation. Are you at the point of judging by your senses, friends suggestions, bosses insinuations or circumstantial dictation, please no, consider God’s judgment as that only has a far reaching and long lasting effect as psalm 119:98.

To Judge by God’s word you must take away;

1. FEAR:
This is a major stumbling block to many in judging by God’s word. Its likened to a cancer capable of spreading so quickly and freely to eat up the strength and courage of judging by God’s word. Beat it and win the battle over it.

2. ALTERNATIVES:
This is far worse than the previous as it ends up eating up your chances of exhibiting your choices by presenting appealing choices and almost denying you the opportunity of picking the ONE important and capable choice to act on. Avoid having alternatives because it could cripple great dreams from coming through.

3. SENSE ORGANS VOICE:
Every thing created craves for significance hence you must avoid hearing and seeing from your sense organs because it’s judgment may not be in tune with that which God's word says.

4. PROCRASTINATION: Taking a late step could also mean not taking a step at all so watch against this and act fast on the Word of God.

Remember, sometimes stepping fast could mean stepping right.

PRAYER FOCUS:
I receive grace to judge only as your word instructs. Help me oh! Lord.

STUDY FOCUS:
Acts 4:28 -30; Gen. 1:1-3.

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Photos News: Lovely pics of Tracy and Treasure Daniels

Nollywood twins,Tracy and Treasure Daniels also known as Golden Girl, are a year older today and have released these lovely photos to mark their birthday...

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Birthday Shout Out to God's General Pastor David Ibiyeomie

Happy Birthday to our gift from God, our dancing Pastor,the Prophet of our era, a Loving and Faithful father,Trail Blazer,Terror in the kingdom of darkness,man of Integrity, God's General,Vessel used to bless my generation....Your teaching have made Christianity so easy for me....I'm so glad to identify with you Papa...Celebrating a Living Legend @ 54, God bless and keep you for us....Love You Papa.....
Y'll are invited to a service of Celebration featuring Songs,Dance,Drama,Comedy etc@ Salvation Ministries today by 4:30pm or you can watch online@www.smhos.org......
Be there.......
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#HomeofSuccess#
#OurYearofSupernaturalSpeed#
#OurSeasonofCelebration#
#Papa'sBirthday#
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God bless you Sir.........

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Friday 21st Oct, 2016

RULE BY WISDOM

TEXT: Proverbs 4:7
Wisdom is the principal thing therefore get wisdom and with all thy getting get understanding.

It’s no doubt that its easier said than done because challenging moments are deciding moments and its quite uneasy to maintain form and beliefs but you can if only you choose to do so.

The result of wisdom rule would always outweigh a hundredth time approach of its opposite. Solomon was confronted with a life threatening urgent situation where both parties are grieved and furious and dramatically presenting themselves hence the severity of the issue and reduced chances of giving a suitable response to assuage and halt the situation. He had to display an act of wisdom which is not common then as his response left many in shock and deep thoughts.

Wisdom would achieve for you in a day what would have ordinarily taken you a week to fix. Spend time to know and act in wisdom because it in turn saves you from impending danger.

Wisdom is a spiritual concept and comes alive in a person having had and encounter with Jesus Christ who is Wisdom personified. 1st Corinthians 1:24. No action per time in wisdom misses target. God remains the source of wisdom for man and working with God would always deliver to man wisdom.

Gains of Wisdom;
1. STRENGTH: Proverbs 24:5 – Your strength comes alive when wisdom is present. You can’t act in wisdom and not be strengthened.

2. SAFETY: The essence of acquiring certain things is to keep in safety and enjoy safety so wisdom ensures you are safe because by wisdom you declare the truth which in itself and by itself makes people free.

3. RESTORED PEACE: By Solomon’s singular act, the puzzle for a peaceful kingdom was fixed as every one nodded in affirmation. Friend, Wisdom brings peace.

4. RESTORED GLORY: In a peaceful atmosphere is beauty showcased. Beauty speaks of the glory of the land or kingdom but wisdom makes it possible.

5. PROGRESS: Life is designed for progress naturally that’s why day progresses into nights and numbers progress from one (1) to two (2) etc. Even body stature responds to this phenomenon likewise socioeconomic and political terrains experience same.

Rule by wisdom and allow wisdom rule you.

PRAYER FOCUS: Lord! I submit to your will and allow for wisdom to rule my affairs.

STUDY FOCUS: Proverbs 1:7, James 2:1-5.

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Thursday 20th Oct, 2016

HEAR GOD’S WORD

TEXT: Luke 6:17

Did you know that what you hear has a far reaching effect to who you become? You are and act like what you hear. From opening scriptures today it’s clear that the people of sea coast of Tyre and Sidon understood the benefit of hearing God’s word as the bible recorded multitude “which came to hear…".

When you hear God’s word you become God’s word happening to your immediate environment. God’s word in your human spirit would do for you what even an equipped library of mere facts may not accomplish little wonder emphasis are overtime laid on hearing God’s word as Pro. 4:20 instructs… “My son, attend to my words, incline thine ear to my sayings”. What you attend to would determine what would attend to you so attend to GOD’S WORD today.

People left friends, families, work, job, career and places regardless their socio-economic status just to Hear God’s word; Haba! They must be something about that word indeed that could substitute for the time and stress.

What you get when you attend to God’s word:

1. In His word is Life: Friend! deceit has filled the air in this generation as many don’t know what good living or life entails so they indulge in or go to certain places just to get the good life. Friend, the location and description for a good life is in God’s word alone so hear it today and be saved. Pro. 4:22.

2. In His word is Healing: Luke 6:17 says they came to hear and be healed. There’s healing in the word as it’s not just bodily but also for your soul and spirit. Aren’t you tired of the pain and trauma you’ve been through? Why wait again when the solution is here and now with you? Get up and get into the word for your complete healing. I see you renewed by Gods grace.

3. In His word is Light: Anyone could stumble in the absence of light as light it is that justifies your pace of achievement.

No world record sprinter can maintain his track or record time in a dark confined environment. So your boast should be that you have light and this is what you get when you hear God’s word either through tapes, pulpit ministration or personal search.

Hear this, your cleansing agent is the Word little wonder the wicked one seeks to deny your access to it. Defeat him today and hear God’s word.

PRAYER FOCUS:
I submit myself to hearing your word and become whom it says I am.

STUDY FOCUS: Romans 12:1-4, Proverbs 4:20-23.

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Latest updates on our Power Couple split:Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie

It looks like Brad Pitt isn't the only one getting some visits lately.

E! News has confirmed that the actor has seen his children for the second time since his highly publicized split with Angelina Jolie was announced, however, it's not clear whether the couple's eldest son, Maddox, has gone to see his father since the divorce filing.

A source says that the 15-year-old "is mad at his dad and doesn't want to see him now."

The famous father reportedly had a monitored visit that "lasted about 90 minutes at an undisclosed neutral location." In Touch, who first reported about the visit, also states that, "Brad wasn't as emotional as the first visit, but it was obvious that he was very happy to see the kids."

Meanwhile, Angelina received a visit of her own, but from the FBI. Two FBI agents spent three hours with Jolie and her kids at their Malibu home to gather facts about the alleged private plane incident that occurred between the children and Pitt, according to TMZ.

When asked about the reported visit, an FBI spokesperson told E! News in a statement, "In response to your inquiry regarding allegations within the special aircraft jurisdiction of the United States; specifically, an aircraft carrying Mr. Brad Pitt and his children, the FBI is continuing to gather facts and will evaluate whether an investigation at the federal level will be pursued."

As we previously reported, DCFS continues to investigate allegations that Pitt was involved in an incident with a child aboard a private plane recently, but an insider said that the Allied star's main concern is his children and their well-being.

Jolie initially filed for sole physical custody of the kids, however the two A-listers came to a temporary custody agreement that gave Jolie temporary sole custody of their six kids while Pitt received visitation rights.

According to a source familiar with the voluntary agreement, both parents agreed to participate in individual counseling, and Pitt's initial visit with his children would be with a therapist, though nothing has been mandated for supervision or monitoring.

The source also noted that Jolie doesn't intend for this custody agreement to become permanent; she believes it's  necessary right now and knows she and Pitt will need to co-parent together in the future.

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New Willy Wonka Movie in Progress After Gene Wilder's Death

E! News can confirm Warner Bros. has acquired the rights to the Willy Wonka IP from the Roald Dahl Estate and is beginning to plan a new movie centered around the unforgettable character..

According to Variety, who first reported the news, the studio has been trying to lock down rights since the beginning of the year. Ultimately, they were able to close a deal this fall.

Roald penned two books in which Willy Wonka appeared including Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator. He ultimately never wrote anything specifically on the Willy Wonka character.

Movie fans know, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory has already been adapted into two feature films including a 2005 version that was directed by Tim Burton and starred Johnny Depp. The original, however, starred Gene Wilder who passed away on August 28.

"He had been in The Producers, but he wasn't a superstar. I looked at him and I knew in my heart there could only be one person who could play Willy Wonka," director Mel Stuart shared with The Washington Post in 2005. "He walked to the elevator after he read and I ran after him and I said, ‘As far as I'm concerned, you've got it.'"

Sources tell Variety that the upcoming film will not be an origin tale, but a standalone movie focused on Willy Wonka and his early adventures.

Harry Potter producer David Heyman will help produce the film while The Secret Life of Pets writer Simon Rich will work on the script.

A release date and any cast members have yet to be announced. 

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Selma Blair Opens Up About Her "Terrifying" Plane Outburst: "I Had a Total Psychotic Blackout

Selma Blair is opening up about her plane incident that made front-page headlines earlier this summer.

During an appearance on The Talk Wednesday afternoon, the actress shed some light on what really happened as she flew from Mexico to Los Angeles.

"I am someone who should never drink and I rarely do and I don't drink anymore, but I did. I was going through something. I had a glass of wine, someone gave me a pill that I thought was something that I had taken before, which I don't take on a regular basis. It was something completely different," she explained to the co-hosts. "A very bad choice and I had a total psychotic blackout."

She continued, "It was horrible and frightening and I had empathy for myself actually afterwards because actually it was so out of character for me, especially now that I am a mother."

Back in June, Selma was removed from a Delta flight after having an outburst mid-fight. The actress, who was on a getaway with her four-year-old son and ex for Father's Day, asked for forgiveness one day after the incident.

"I made a big mistake yesterday," she told Vanity Fair. "I am a flawed human being who makes mistakes and am filled with shame over this incident. I am truly very sorry."

Contrary to reports, Selma told viewers Wednesday afternoon that she was taken to a clinic instead of the hospital where she was given an IV and an assessment. She was able to go home two hours later.
"My son was with his father and he had slept through it. I knew he was going to sleep. He had headphones on and that's why I took this pill...bad choice all around," Selma admitted. "Totally own it, it will not happen again."

If the actress is offered a glass of alcohol today, she will politely decline. And if you keep asking, she has one joke ready to go: "Google me."

"I keep it alive in me with me every day," she shared with Sharon Osbourne, Aisha Tyler and the rest of the co-hosts. "I forgive myself, but I keep it alive like things can go really wrong and humiliating."

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Michael Moore's 'October surprise': New anti-Trump, pro-Hillary film

Billing it as his own "October surprise," the provocative producer Michael Moore is hoping to impact another presidential campaign on the silver screen.

Moore, the award-winning documentarian whose movies, for example,"Bowling for Columbine" and "Fahrenheit 9/11" have inspired liberals and enraged conservatives, unveiled his latest effort this week:"Michael Moore in TrumpLand,"a one-man stage performance starring the director about the 2016 election.

It was recorded over the course of two nights earlier this month in Wilmington, Ohio, after Moore's arrangements for a live show somewhere else in the state were scrapped.

Moore said on Facebook a month ago that the group board administering the Midland Theater in Newark, Ohio,opted against permitting him to perform there over worries that he was attempting to influence the election.

That's not in dispute. "TrumpLand" is an unabashed effort to get Hillary Clinton elected, and to thwart Donald Trump - generally as Moore's 2004 film, "Fahrenheit 9/11,"was a bid to defeat George W. Bush.

https://twitter.com/hashtag/OctoberSurprise?src=hash&ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

Moore held a free sneak preview Tuesday for his most recent film at the IFC Center in New York, where the film started being shown on Wednesday. In spite of the rushed debut, the film was not entirely unexpected. Moore had been teasing it for days on Twitter.

"Yes, some rumors may be true," Moore tweeted throughout the weekend. "I "might be" putting some finishing touches on an 'October Surprise' for this election. Then again..."

https://twitter.com/MMFlint/status/787383065886724096?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw

The unconventional release is fitting for what appears to be an unconventional movie for Moore.In a survey for The New York Times on Wednesday, the critic Neil Genzlinger wrote that, in "TrumpLand," Moore "is by all accounts emphatically uninterested in provoking  anyone with this new offering."

Genzlinger portrayed the execution appeared in the film as a''stand-up comedy routine" that at times "sounds like a commencement address."

The film, Genzlinger wrote, "is not an attack on Mr. Trump, but instead a paean to his rival in the presidential contest, Hillary Clinton."

Moore has spoken out against Trump's candidacy throughout the campaign, but the Oscar-winning filmmaker hasn't exactly been a diehard Clinton supporter over the years. In 2008, Moore said he was "morally prohibited" from voting for Clinton due to her past support for the Iraq War. He endorsed Bernie Sanders during the Democratic primary earlier this year.

But Moore said in May that he would "absolutely" back Clinton if she were the nominee. And during last month's first presidential debate, Moore made a plea to Sanders supporters.

"Fellow Bernie voters -- admit it, there's nothing she's said we disagree with," Moore tweeted. "In fact, she's adopted his positions!"

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Ken Saro Wiwa Jr. reportedly dead

POSLEAF and Ogoni mourns as the son of late Human and Environmental Rights Activist,Ken Saro Wiwa junior joins his father in the world beyond.

May his gentle soul rest in peace.....

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MOMENT WITH JESUS

#Wednesday 19th Oct, 2016

LOVE YOUR TODAY

Text: Titus 2:11
For the grace of God that bringeth salvation hath appeared to all men.

It’s grace that make great and it doth appear in a day called TODAY.

Friend, the equal gift given to man daily is 24hours in time and it can best be described as TODAY. No one has lived the tomorrow within the 24hrs of today along side their today so needless crying over spilled milk or expected tomorrow while allowing your gift of today to lay fallow and empty.

Every great step begins within the 24hrs time called today but the beauty of today can only be revealed when you love your own today.

There’s no sense in pushing till tomorrow what you could conveniently accomplish in today so ensure you love your today and start out now to fulfill your dreams and passion.

Failure to love your today will result;

1. PROCRASTINATION:
This is simply described as leaving for the later what you could conveniently do now. It is also seen as the thief of time. Personally, i call it the virus of your today’s yield. If you successfully arrest this issue, you are bound to see beautiful yield in your 24hrs called today.

2. DEPLETION OF ENERGY:
Energy is vital and comes in daily but for work as it would get depleted and unproductive if you fail to love your today. Remember your sleep time renews your energy but when not in use gets depleted an none beneficial.

3. INACTIVITY:
“There’s no grave so deep but shallow containing many today as the grave of inactivity” as I quote Walson Ekene. The “I can…. I will but later” syndrome is what leads many to this grave as many are swallowed in it already. It’s a grave so deep but shallow, so when one realizes, then can arise and start out again.

Remember, the lepers said “We would arise and go into the city and the friends to the dead man loving their today decided just to walkout of the inactivity and bore a space to let down their friend before Jesus and smiles and rejoicing took over the atmosphere.

Friends! Success has a link with loving your today i.e your 24hrs time while failure is to allow these factors set in.

Remember when you are re-energized, then you can restrategize to resurface.

PRAYER FOCUS: Lord! I make a choice to love your gift of today and pledge to utilize it well.

STUDY FOCUS: Matthew 5:14-16, Romans 8:1


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#Tuesday 18th Oct, 2016

SPEAK THE TRUTH

TEXT: Proverbs 8:7 "For my mouth shall speak truth and wickedness shall be far from my lips".

Living in a time and age where truth is fast becoming irrelevant and an old time fable, God still expects us to speak the truth regardless whose Ox is goad in our daily walk.

One word of truth from you today can save a whole moment of destruction and devastation. You are to say the truth not only because you may be punished for saying otherwise but to validate the fact that truth is like a blown balloon put into water as it would naturally and almost always find its way out to the surface. Then you would realize how nature cares about truth because nature is truth.

What happens when you speak the truth;

Point 1 – You feel accomplished giving the true report and picture of facts around you. The feels of fulfillment is second to none as only truth process can achieve this.

Point 2 – You save the situation from further decay or devastation. It is your prime responsibility to save lives & time and this is what you cheaply achieve when you speak the truth.

Point 3 – You win trust from observers and those involved. Trust is not easy to come by but it daily rides on the lane of truth which only those prepared to speak truth can freely ride on that lane.

Point 4 - You create a better living or working environment. A peaceful atmosphere is synonymous with a truth filled atmosphere because people are relaxed knowing things are in their truth state.

Point 5 - You schedule yourself for reward. For every truth spoken there is a reward attached which not even man has control to its release but nature as it definitely gets to the person in time.

Friend, don't just seek the reward but seek to speak the truth because it naturally would release the reward.

PRAYER FOCUS: Lord, I receive grace to speak the truth.

STUDY FOCUS: Psalm 15:2; Jeremiah 9:5 Zach 8:6


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Love and Marriage:Battle 8

Continuation from the previous story...

After a whole month of daily calls to Kenny with no response, I finally gave up. I knew my marriage was over. I had gone through the full cycle from tears to pain in my heart to anger to being just blank. I have finally resigned myself to fate. Even the strength to pray had left me. I have tried interpreting Kenny's silence in different ways but my conclusion was that he just didn't love me enough to fight for us. I sent him different text messages and not once did he humour me and respond. I just could not understand why a man will be silent after hearing his wife was raped.

As always my mum walked into my bedroom that Friday afternoon once again to ask what happened between my husband and I. She had soon figured out something was wrong but I always refused to tell her.

''Lola, you know what? Your father and I have tried. You have stayed in our house for over a month and we have been caring. You can't keep saying there is nothing wrong when I have been married for thirty five years and I know more than you''

''Mum, please I don't have the strength to argue''.

''Okay then, your father and I have decided you can't live here anymore. We will not harbor a married woman in our home. Since you and your husband don't respect us enough to seek for advice. Please go back to him or wherever you want but you cannot stay under my roof''.

Still shocked at what she was saying, ''Mum?''

''Daughter!!! Yes?''

I finally relented. I didn't even have a plan B.'' Mum, Kenny and I have serious problems. Our marriage is not even up to a year and we don't even know how to move forward''.

''Okay tell me everything''.

So I sat for over an hour and told my mum every single detail from my wedding night to the day I left Kenny's house. Surprisingly, my mum did not interrupt or blow up at me. I expected her to start screaming but her calmness amazed me.

''Heeeeeeee Omolola, O ti ba ye je ( you have spoilt the world)'' She said in Yoruba language when I was finally done.

''Mummy haba, what did I do wrong? How can Kenny just abandon me here? His love is fleeting mum, it can't even stand the test of time''. I said with deep anger and disappointment.

''hmmmmm, first of all, you are changing your church. The kind of pastor's wife that will give you such advise is not who you should be listening to. Why didn't you call me? Why did you go to an outsider?''

''Mum, you are the one that said I should keep our matters private''.

''Not when it is crumbling my dear, we all need help once in a while''.

''Okay mum, what do we do now? Do you think there is any chance for Kenny and I''.

''Of course, your father and I have had greater battles that we have overcome. Marriage is filled with battles, we fight, win, conquer and fight another day. We never give up. It only ends the day you stop fighting for it. Lola, you keep fighting till you conquer. There is no end. You made some terrible decisions and took some wrong steps''.

''Mum, what about Kenny? He took a lot of wrong steps too''.

''Yes, I will face Kenny but I need to talk to you first. I told you not to kill yourself over not having a child yet. It will come. You shouldn't have fasted and deprived your husband without his full consent. More so, you should have given him his marital rights between 6pm when you break your fast and midnight when the next day starts. You shouldn't have run from your home without his consent and come hide here. To tell you the truth, it will take God for Kenny to be intimate with you again. Both of you, your actions have spoilt a lot of things. This matter should not have generated to this level. First thing tomorrow morning, I am going back to Abuja with you, we are going to see your husband''

True to her word, by 11 am on Saturday, which was the next day, we had arrived my house. As soon as I saw Kenny's car parked in the compound, my heart started beating fast. I wished he was not home even though mum had called earlier and told him she was coming to see him. He opened the door as soon as we were approaching, I assumed he had seen us through the window and prostrated, greeting my mum in yoruba language. Kenny totally ignored me and my mum just smiled at us. I left them in the sitting room and went into the room. Everything was just as I left it and my investigation as to whether somebody else had been living with him came up empty. I heard my mum call me from the living room and I quickly dropped my bag and went back to join them.

''Mummy, Lola does not want to be married. In less than a year of marriage she has shown blatant disregard and disrespect both for me and this home and I am sick of it. Does she think if it was another man, he won't have started womanizing by now? I stayed faithful even when she refused to be faithful to our marriage vows''. Kenny said with so much anger.

''Please don't threaten us with tales of unfaithfulness. So you want an award because you didn't cheat? I said.

''Keep your mouth shut Lola, just shut up'' my mum shouted while Kenny just shook his head. I instantly felt remorseful.

I listened as my mum and Kenny started talking. I truly listened to his hurts and pains as he opened up to my mum and for the first time I understood the gravity of where we were. By the time they started talking about the rape incident, Kenny shed tears. He just kept quiet while tears fell from his eyes and I was broken for both of us.

''Mummy, I warned Lola, I warned her not to go. I haven't been able to get that image out of my head ever since Daddy told me. Where do we start from? She refused to have s*x with me all in the name of prayers and freely gave it to a criminal?''

''Kenny, don't say she freely gave it. We all still feel the pains of that night most especially your wife. The pain she is still in as a result of that incident is great. She needs a lot of time to heal''. My mum said.

''I warned her, I warned her mummy'' Kenny insisted.

My mum began to talk to Kenny about us communicating better, about understanding each other and being quick to forgive. She spoke and fear gripped my heart as I looked at Kenny's face.

After so much advise from mum, Kenny began to calm down.

''Both of you need to pray, be patient and communicate'' mum said again.

''Mummy, truth be told, I am not sure if this marriage still exists. I don't even know where to start with Lola'' Kenny said.

''You both start with forgiving each other and then take it one step at a time. You start with conversations, heart to heart ones, share your pains and fears and with time the intimacy will come and with time you will heal''.

''Okay mummy, thank you ma.'' Kenny said.

About an hour later, mum left our home in a cab, headed to the airport for her flight back home. She refused to spend the night despite all our pleas. As soon as she left, I turned to Kenny to apologize.

''Baby, I am sorry''.I said to Kenny as he went back to sit on the sofa and I sat beside him.

He turned to me and said ''I pray to God to give me the enabling spirit to take that bad rape incident off my mind, Omololami, I am sorry too, I am sorry I wasn't with you during this painful period. Truth is, I don't even know if we can fix this, but first and foremost, we are going to change our place of worship. We shall pray fervently for God to lead us through this hard time''.

''We will babe'', I said with renewed confidence, ''we will, one day at a time''. To God be the glory, that's THE END.

What lessons have you learnt?
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POSLEAF calls for Peace in Akporo Sogho and other parts of Ogoni

On behalf of the leadership and members of Past Ogoni Student Leaders Forum, I totally condemn the incessant killings and destruction of properties worth millions of naira through constant cult clashes in Akporo Sogho community in Khana Local Government Area of Rivers state.

I am appealing to the community leaders, prominent Ogonis, security agencies and the government to come together and profer a lasting solution to these frequent ugly incidence in Sogho and Ogoni while calling on government to as well intensify efforts at combing the indiscriminate arms in Ogoni.

It is becoming unbearable the rate at which people are being killed and rendered homeless in Ogoni as a result of these cult war.

I appeal to all the waring factions to give peace a chance in Sogho and other parts of Ogoni so as to allow development thrive as it is often said that no development can thrive in an atmosphere of rancour and acrimony.

Thank you and;
God bless POSLEAF!
God bless Ogoni!!
God bless Rivers state!!!

Signed: Ana Hycienth
Dir. Of Information, POSLEAF.

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Meet the Team Leader behind MOMENT WITH JESUS

Meet Walson Ekene Obiri, a dynamic, enlightened, handsome and god fearing privileged Team Leader, MOMENT WITH JESUS AUDIO / PRINT DAILY DEVOTIONAL. He is a messenger of  Hope amidst turbulence and despondency. A computer scientist, an alumni of Quantum Business school, Phc and also has a background study in Health, Safety and Environment. 

He is an ordained Evangelist on a mission to spread the gospel of Christ by love...

Moment with Jesus is a vision born on the 6th of January 2014 and has been running. I had an insight to sow my first fruit to the Lord after which the Holy Spirit woke me up that night with an idea to record an audio word of encouragement and send to the people on my contact list. It went on for 3days and on the 3rd day, the Holy Spirit reminded me of the woman with the issue of blood in the bible whose life was transformed when she met Jesus Christ and the name MOMENT WITH JESUS was given to me on the 8th of
January 2014.

Basically, Moment with Jesus saddle with the responsibility of bringing Godly vibes and tunes to people  around the globe and also establishing daily moment with Jesus for people to get conscious of the fact that without Him (Jesus) they are nothing but with Him, they can succeed in life.

Lately, we had to repackage the audio voice notes recorded on CD's as before now it was usually sent to people via WhatsApp only

On the 1st of October 2016, we started distributing the CD's to individuals, churches and different organisations and God alone takes all praise.

Get ready to be inspired...........

God bless you...... 

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Love and Marriage:Battle 7

Continuation from the previous story.......

My conversation with Kenny made me realize he didn't value me as his wife and so I made a decision to give him space. I called my mum and told her I was coming home for a week. I was able to convince her, Kenny supported my decision and I packed my bags. I was going to go home for a week. The next morning I told Kenny about my trip.

''I listened to everything you said and I have decided we probably need to give each other some space. I am taking a break and travelling to my parent's house''. I said

Kenny shook his head, ''you should be ashamed of yourself Lola. In fact when they call women to stand up, you should hide your face in shame. So you cannot take care of your home, you can't satisfy your husband and now rather than deal with your problems you are running?

''Kenny, I refuse to be insulted. I sat quietly while you heaped insults on me yesterday but that doesn't mean I will continue to take it. You said my presence is causing you sorrow and now I am giving you space. I will take the time apart to pray for us''

''I don't freaking need your prayers madam. In fact, God will not answer that prayer because he has told you everything you need to do in the Bible. Stop praying for me and start satisfying me''.

''Ehen, so the other day, when I bought s*xy lingerie and waited for you at home, did you not leave me hanging? You are confused and don't know what you want''.

''You want to go? Fine! Get the hell out but you just might not meet this marriage when you come back''.

''Like I said, I will take the time apart to pray, God will sustain our home'' I told him emphatically.

He just shook his head and closed his eyes on the bed, effectively ending the conversation. I packed my bags and headed straight to the airport.

Late in the night that day, while I sat in my parent's sitting room, my mum was trying to get stories out of me.

''So why didn't Kenny take a break with you madam?''

''Mum, he is busy with work, that's the same thing I told dad before''.

''That doesn't mean he should not spend a weekend with us. We have not seen him since the wedding.''

''Isn't that why I am here? At least once you see one of us you have seen two of us. After all the two have become one.'' I said laughing.

''Okay , no problem. I tried to call him earlier that we have seen his wife but he was not picking his call''.

''I am sure he will probably call you back tomorrow. He is probably resting early now that I am not home''.

''Okay, but Omolola how is marriage life? I hope you are being submissive and taking care of your husband well enough''.

''Mummy, did he complain to you? I am trying my best''.

''Why are you getting defensive? Is everything okay? I hope this delay in pregnancy isn't putting you under pressure?''

''No, it's not mum, we are fine with it. Everything is okay''.

''There is no cause for alarm yet. It's not even up to a year yet. I waited 3 years before I was able to get pregnant with your elder brother and then you so everything will be fine.''

''I know mum...''

The hard knock on the door startled us.

''Mum are you expecting anyone so late? Its 11pm already and dad has gone to bed''.

''No I am not but it could be that our neighbours need something, go and open the door''.

As I got close to the door to open it, I was suddenly knocked off my feet by the force of it being jacked open. My eyes went wide open as I saw them, three in number with their weapons held up high. I closed my eyes shut and began to pray.

''Okay so pray very well beautiful girl, you just might need it'' the voice said. My eyes was still squeezed shut so I could not identify which of them spoke. As soon as I felt a hand pull me by my hair, my eyes flipped open and I was dragged into the living room to meet my mum who was already in tears and shaking.

Five days later, I woke up once again with screams as it has been the practice since that horrible night. My dad was immediately by my side soothing me as the tears rolled down my face.

''It's okay Omolola. You're fine and safe. Daddy is here''.

''Daddy, I am afraid. Kenny has not come''.

''I know he hasn't. I will still call him again. Just try and get stronger first okay?''

''He hasn't picked my calls dad. Since you told him, he has not picked my calls once''.

As my dad eventually left me alone in the bedroom with my thoughts, I recalled that evil night as clear as the day. I remember my dad being dragged from the bedroom and asked to give them money. I remember the exhaustive search for money which proved abortive as my dad and mum only had a total of about N50,000 at home. I remember adding the N20,000 I had in my bag and the man telling me I was insulting him with change. As soon as I apologized, he looked at me and really looked at me and I knew what he was going to do before he even did it. I could see it vividly in his eyes. I begged,

''Please, I am married. I beg you''

''So what are you doing in daddy's house fine girl, your husband is not servicing you well abi? I will help his ministry. He needs help''.

I begged, my dad and mum begged and his only response was because of their begging, he won't make them watch. I fought as hard as I could and for every struggle there was a slap and a punch. He finally had to get the other man to hold me down. I fought every step of the way. I was numb. The physical pain was welcome, I could deal with that. I couldn't deal with the heaviness that crushed my heart. All through as he kept thrusting faster than I could ever imagine, I thought of Kenny and how much pain this was going to cause him. I remember him warning me not to make this trip. He kept going on and on for about thirty minutes before he finally let go. Funny how he had the decency to use a condom. I had no strength left. I was broken. For the first time in my christian walk, I questioned God. I asked him questions. His silence was deafening.

It has been five days since my nightmare, five days since my dad informed Kenny, three days since I got back home from the hospital and he still hasn't showed up. I have no more will left to even live another day......*To be continued*.

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International Day of the Girl Child

Teens Connect International Center (TCIC) is a non-governmental organisation which has been at the forefront of bridging the value gaps in the youth with a special focus on teenagers.

It is the brainchild of the Center for Creative Development Strategises(CCDS).

Teens Connect International Center held a programme today 14th Oct, 2016 themed ''Girls Progress=Goals Progress'' to celebrate the International Day of the Girl Child at Archdeacon Crowther Memorial Girls School(ACMGS) Elelenwo.

Different motivational talks were taken on "Because am a girl, Preserving the Dignity and Honor Code of the Girl Child, Stand out from the Crowd through Excellence in Education".

With  Pastor Mrs. Nancy Iheduru, the Executive Director of CCDS, Mrs. Chinyere Ordu, the Principal of Archdeacon Crowther Memorial Girls School, Dr. Mrs. Njideka Ebisi, Mummy Faraday Iwuchukwu as keynote speakers.

Also present was CCDS Team, Students from ACMGS, Priesthood Charity Orphanage, Methodist Girls Secondary School.

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Love and Marriage:Battle 6

The matter big o.......continuation from the previous story.........

About Eight hours after, I finally sat in the office of the doctor to get a detailed explanation on Kenny's condition. All I had been told as I waited was that he was alive and he had been taken in for ultrasound and later for surgery. The nurses refused to tell me the severity of the accident and I had brought hell down screaming and shouting. Eventually, I called my sister-in-law who came to wait with me and was able to calm me down. I had to leave the hospital briefly to use the cash machine and make some monetary deposits but aside from that I had been unable to drink even a drop of water.

''Mrs Ayorinde, thank you so much for your patience'' the doctor started, but I quickly cut him short

''Sir, please just go straight to the point, how is he? What happened? What was the surgery for? Is he okay? Did the surgery go well?''

''Madam, I will answer all your questions but I need you to relax a bit''

''Okay, please go on'' I said.

''Your husband is fine and the surgery was successful. He suffered from testicular trauma as a result of the force of his testicles on the bicycle when the accident occurred''

''Jesus Christ!!!!! see trouble.. What do you mean testicular trauma? He doesn't have testicles again? How are we supposed to have children now? Haaaaaaa Kenny will kill me''.

''Please relax and let's not jump the gun here. I didn't say he doesn't have testicles again. There was just some rupture and dislocation as well and that is why we had to do an immediate surgery. It has been successfully fixed now and we are hopeful that there should be no cause for infertility in the nearest future. Of course, we will advise that he stays off sexual activity for a while until he is properly healed to avoid him developing hernia. He should be fine within a week''.

''Okay doctor, thank you so much. So when will we be discharged''.

''I will want to just observe him overnight to be sure he is okay. He should be able to go home tomorrow''.

We eventually got home the next day after staying in the hospital all night. His sister left us in the hospital later in the evening after confirming that Kenny was okay. Kenny was  withdrawn and quiet and it felt like the cycle had started again. It was still surreal that it was just yesterday morning we agreed to call a truce and it felt like that did not even happen.

''Darling are you okay? I asked after he had settled down on the bed''

''Lola, no I am not okay. You know what? I regret marrying you. I don't feel like the man that found a wife and found a good thing because it's like your sole purpose is to cause me sorrow and sadness''.

My mouth was agape. I just did not understand the reason for such anonymity.

''You know when I decided to marry you I had a plan. I knew what I wanted. I wanted a woman who will love me and make me happy. I wanted a life of joy and happiness. I wanted to build fun memories of just the two of us even outside the kids but I have not had any of that with you. It's from one problem to another. We have been married for just 9 months and already I am tired''

''Kenny, why will you say all these to me? Why? What exactly have I done to destroy your so called happiness so much?''

''Immediately after the wedding, it took about 2 weeks for you to even calm down enough to let me deflower you. As soon as that was over, you got fixated about pregnancy making s*x totally boring. When I was talking to you about just enjoying each other and having fun, all you did was lie down there missionary style claiming that is the best way to get pregnant. After five months of that, you went into your so called fasting period and now because of all the frustration you have put me through, I went to ride my bicycle just to vent and got into an accident? Did you know it was because I was thinking about you that I lost concentration? And to crown it all, it's like the devil was trying to crack a joke, testicular trauma? I am tired madam''

I sat there in silence not knowing what to say and after a while I just got angry.

''How dare you Kenny? How can you blame me for your sadness or so called unhappiness? I wake up daily praying for you and this is how you repay me? Was it not when you married me your business went from struggling and started excelling and you dare insult me? I wont let the devil use you more than he already has. This conversation is over. Do whatever you want''. I stood up from his side and walked out of the bedroom with deep confusion in my heart.

For the first time I wondered if staying single would have been a better option......

Trouble........Trouble.........Trouble.........

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I WISH I HAD NOT MARRIED HIM

This is just a short story of my life, my experiences, my mistakes and lesson learnt.

My name is Natasha and I have to say that I am a beautiful, intelligent and young christian lady. When I turned 30, the pressure to get married from my family and relatives was too much to handle. Did I mention that I’m the only daughter, so you can imagine what the pressure felt like. At church people started saying that I had a spiritual husband and that I needed deliverance. The pressure became more intense such that I became desperate for marriage. My pastor introduced me to a certain man of God at a church revival who proposed marriage to me and said that God had told him that I was his wife. To be honest I didn't really love this man but I thought things would change and I would develop love for him. My pastor kept on encouraging me and I just said YES  because of the pressure coming from family and also how people thought being single means that you have a spiritual husband. I informed my mother about this man and the marriage plans. she was really happy and set out to make enquiries about him and his family. She was happy because the man was also a pastor. I tried to explain my feelings to my mother  but she brushed me off and said that I should relax and with time I will get to understand and love my husband.

We had our wedding and I became a married woman and hoped for a happily ever after life. My mother came to visit after my child birth and was speechless. She had to ask me if I was really happy and I told her not to bother. She wanted me to get married and I’m married.

In summary, after 2years of marriage with the verbal, emotional, psychological abuse. I am now divorced. I became a divorced, single mother at age 33 because I Married The Man Of Other People’s Dreams But Lived With The Man Of My Nightmares.

The lesson i have learnt is to Never ever give in to pressure from family, friends, society or wherever it may come from because at the end you are the one who has to live with the person and bears the consequence. Everyone blames me for what happened yet they are the ones who pushed me. I was a strong praise and worship leader but now I lost it too. I just want to tell every woman not to give in to the pressure from people about marriage. Also realize that even a man of God is still human and they can make errors so don't think getting married to a pastor is an express ticket to a happy marriage.

Remember they are all men of God and not God of man........

WAIT UPON THE LORD

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Love and Marriage :Battle 5

Continuation from yesterday's story.....

On Saturday morning when Kenny walked into the house, I had decided enough was enough and I was not going to pay for my sins forever. He had no right whatsoever to keep sleeping outside the house under the guise of anger. I was already waiting for him and as soon as he stepped in, I just blew up,

''Where do you think you are coming from oga?'' I shouted.

He looked at me like I had suddenly grown two heads and to my surprise he replied, ''Sunrise hotel''.

''Is that where you have been staying?'' I asked unsure. Not expecting him to answer in the first place.

''Yes I got a room there'' he answered and looked at me, ''Is that all? he asked.

''No, that is not all Kenny and don't make me feel stupid. You have been sleeping outside for the past three weeks and now I am questioning you, you're acting ignorant'' I was truly bewildered.

''Madam, you asked me where I have been and I answered you. How am I acting ignorant?''

''Kenny, once again, I am sorry''.

''Okay I have heard. Just to be clear though, what exactly are you sorry for?''

''Well, I am sorry for depriving you of s*x and fasting without your agreement. I am sorry for being inconsiderate of your feelings. Please can we just go back to how we were?''

''Okay, I have heard you'' he said with a straight face.

''Kenny, please now. What else do you want me to say or do?''

''Lola I said I have heard. Please don't stress me. I want to ride around the estate on my bicycle for a while. Is that okay?''

''Okay, that is fine. Do you promise to stay at home from today?'' I asked

''Yes, I will. So can I go change and head out now?''

I nodded and got out of his way and he immediately went to the room and changed into his riding outfit. He always looked so handsome in his tights and t-shirt whenever he wanted to exercise and watching him come out of the bedroom, I went to give him a hug half expecting him to turn me away but he gave me a very lingering hug and left soon afterwards. I was so giddy from the obvious reconciliation, I decided to cook something nice for his breakfast when he returned.

A little over thirty minutes later, I got the call that changed my life forever. With tears in my eyes not knowing what to expect, I grabbed my car keys and rushed out of the house to the hospital address I had been given. I still could not believe my ears that Kenny had been in an accident. He just left home barely 30 minutes earlier. The caller was unable to give details of the severity of the accident or what happened. As I drove out and met with traffic, I tried calling his number back to get more details but it was switched off. I contemplated calling family and friends but I decided to know the status of his health before calling anybody.

''Oh Lord, help me. You said we shall not die God, please keep my husband. I will not be a widow in my youth oh Lord.''

Words of prayer failed me. I did not even know how to pray. Almost an hour later, I finally drove into the hospital compound and ran inside with deep fear, not knowing what to expect..

Please share your thoughts..........

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Gabrielle Union sues BET

Actress Gabrielle Union is suing the BET network, claiming they are unfairly trying to extend her contract on the series "Being Mary Jane."

Union filed suit against BET and Breakdown Productions Inc. on Tuesday in Los Angeles County Superior Court. She is alleging breach of contract and negligent misrepresentation.

According to court documents, the actress maintains that she agreed to sign on for the BET drama with the understanding that the series would shoot not more than 13 episodes per season. Union did not want to commit to more episodes to allow for her other work in film.

The complaint states that Union was assured during a meeting in 2012 with series creators Mara Bock Akil and Salim Akil that they "would never be able to produce more than 13 episodes of the series per season." BET later confirmed that the show would film between 10 to 13 episodes per season, Union claims.

Season 1 premiered in 2013 with eight episodes followed by 12 episodes in Season 2. Union's contract was then amended to give her a raise, ensure she would be paid for 13 episodes regardless and she was made an executive producer on the popular series. Season 3 featured 10 episodes.

Union's suit alleges that BET is now attempting to shoot 10 episodes each of Seasons 4 and 5 in succession -- meaning that she would be required to film 20 back-to-back episodes and "fraudulently extend the term of Ms. Union's contract."

BET released a statement about the legal action on Wednesday.

"While we hold Gabrielle Union in the highest esteem, we feel strongly that we are contractually well within our rights and are committed to reaching a swift and positive resolution in this matter," the statement read.

Union -- who is set to be paid $150,000 per episode for Season 4 and $165,000 per episode for Season 5 -- is seeking $1 million in damages and an amendment to her contract stating BET will not shoot more than 13 episodes per season.

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Janet Jackson confirms pregnancy at 50

Singer Janet Jackson has officially confirmed she is expecting her first child, at the age of 50.

She told People magazine: "We thank God for our blessing", and posed for a picture with her growing baby bump.

Speculation about her pregnancy surfaced in April when she postponed her 'Unbreakable' tour, saying she wanted to focus on planning a family with her husband, Wissam al-Mana.

She was recently spotted in London shopping for baby essentials.

The People magazine quoted a source close to the Jackson family as saying: "She is super excited about her pregnancy and is doing extremely well. She actually feels very good about everything."

In a video posted on Twitter in April, she told her fans that she was postponing her world tour because "there's been a sudden change".

"I thought it was important that you be the first to know. My husband and I are planning our family," she said, adding: "Please if you can try and understand that its important that I do this now."
She went on to say: "I have to rest up, doctor's orders."

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Love and Marriage :Battle 4

Still on the matter....

It has been a week since I finished fasting and Kenny has still not spent a single night in the house. Every morning he came home to dress for work and didn't come home till the next morning. Every morning I met him at the door begging and cajoling but it was always the same. He totally ignored me, walked past into the guest room and walked back out once he was done changing cloths and having his bath. Not one word was ever said in acknowledgment.

I began to think I probably should have compromised during the 100 days. I did not expect him to take it this far. I did not even know what plausible solution I could execute. I knew s*x was a big deal to men but it was always painful for me anyway so I was never all excited about it. On our wedding night, when Kenny deflowered me, I thought I was only going to feel the pain for less than a week but it has been six months and every single intimacy we have had was laced with very uncomfortable pain. Chauvinist as Kenny was, he felt I was just making a mountain out of a molehill and s*x could not be as painful as I was making it to be. Truth was if not for the sake of procreation I was comfortable not having s*x ever. The hype is definitely more than the experience.

I finally decided that maybe some physical solution was needed since the spiritual was not solving Kenny and I's problem. I went to Google that afternoon as I got home from work and searched '' how to stop painful s*x''. As soon as I finished reading of different positions to do to ease the pain and how the pain was coming from my mind. I made a few decisions on making sure s*x became enjoyable. Next, I Googled, ''how to seduce your husband and I felt so uncomfortable with the sheer number of unholy things I discovered. I decided to take a bold step and put some things I found to practice to ensure Kenny finally stayed home for the night. As alien as it felt, I typed some steamy texts I found online to Kenny at one hour interval each,

''I am burning with desire for you honey''

When I did not get any response an hour later, I sent another one I found online,

''I can't focus, all I can think about is what you will do to me if you were here with me''

Still no response, I sent this 30 minutes later,

''You taught me how to make love, tonight I will show you how much I have learnt''

I got a response after this saying,

''Please I am in a meeting with the board''

I was so happy I literally jumped up from my seat. This was the only statement Kenny had sent to me in a week and I decided to send more.

''Just thinking about you inside of me...''

He responded immediately,

''Stop this rubbish Omolola''

I decided I had enough of Google and composed one text message of my own.

''Please come home and stay tonight. I accept I was wrong. I want to make it right and make it up to you. Please give me a chance, I love you baby''.

He responded simply with,

''Okay''.

I was so happy and I quickly jumped up from the couch and drove to the supermarket. I bought a new matching lingerie, a foot massage kit and also full body massage oil. I had read on Google that massaging the foot and body could do wonders in pointing in the right direction. I also bought a lubricator. Google had taught me so much. I immediately rushed home after and prepared fried rice with plantain and peppered chicken for Kenny. By 8pm, I was finally done and ready for him to walk in. I sat on the sofa in my lingerie and the table was already set. I tried calling Kenny but his phone was off so I waited.

I must have slept off on the sofa because the sound of the door opening woke me up the next morning at about 7am. Kenny never showed up last night. He walked in and paused for a minute staring at me before walking past as usual to the guest room. I sat down in frustration and cried so hard. I was still crying when he shut the door.

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