Questions you need to ask yourself before leaving a partner

I hear some people say not everyone that cheats on their partner deserves to be dumped. Let me ask you a question. It’s going to seem really obvious and easy to answer on the surface, but once you give it some thought, it might not seem so easy.

• Is kissing cheating?
  
  
  Easy, right?
  
  
  Sure it is. 
  
  
  But…

• Would you end a romance with that special one in your life because he/she kissed another person?  

           What if the person you love,that you were going to probably marry did more;making out                        hooking up or even s*x?

• What sort of cheating would be enough to make you want to throw it all away.
  
  
  Came across a  viral video from Mexico that got me thinking about the kind of cheating that can end a relationship.

• I kept asking where is that line? And who gets to draw it?
  
  
  In the video, i'm not talking about a peck on the cheek. That’s probably pretty easy to forgive,right? I'm talking about making out. (Admittedly, drunken making out, if that makes a   difference to you.)

• Does that change it for you? Does it fit the definition of cheating?

          The story from Mexico is about a bachelorette party that turned out bad. A bride to-be and her             friends went out for one final wild night at a resort bar called the Lady Coralina. The lady                     extremely tipsy and made out with a stranger by the pool bar.

          It's not exactly an uncommon story…

          Unfortunately for her, somebody at the bar recorded the make-out session and shared it                        online where it quickly went viral with the hashtag #LadyCoralina(part of the video's illegal                 appeal is that the lady was  dressed as a single woman and the man she was kissing was not                  her groom to be)

         The video made the bride and groom's family call off the wedding.

          It's a humiliating circumstance all around, however it does bring up that BIG issue.The                         question still remains......

• Would you end an engagement if you found out your partner cheated ?
  
  
   Clearly, deceit and unfaithfulness can't be ignored in a relationship. It addresses the level of  trust and regard between the couple. Be that as it may, society doesn't see kissing another    person as being unfaithful. Indeed, a 2014 survey found that 60 percent of men and 34 percent  of ladies felt that kissing somebody other than your partner is a pardonable offense.
  
  
   However, shouldn't something be said about different offenses?

• Do all unfaithful partners deserve to be dumped?
  
  
  For me, there are a lot of factors that need to be considered and questions I’d need answers.
  
  
  Let’s use the Lady Coralina incident as a case study. Because it’s not me, and apparently not you.So we can think it through here and debate it without the complication of our own heartbreak or sense of betrayal clouding our judgement.

• Was there malicious intent behind the act? In this case, probably not. It’s not likely that she  planned on breaking up with her fiance if their wedding was already scheduled.
  
  
  You need to ask yourself whether your partner was trying to get back at you,disregard your feelings or trying to end your relationship.Those are all pretty malicious. If so,that kissing spell isn’t just cheating, it’s also a sign that relationship needs to end.

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