8 Traits That Can Destroy Your Relationship

Most relationship ended because one gets to be unfaithful. However, many relationship also ended  due to some individual attributes or qualities of the general public which causes difficulties that later wreck the relationship. Before it's past the point of no return, you better check it now from my rundown which do you display and how it can ruin your relationship.

• Dishonesty
  
  Beyond any doubt everyone would agree with me that dishonesty or lying to your partner can destroy relationship. In spite of the fact that occasionally we lie since we would prefer not to hurt our partner. In any case, before you do that, ask yourself these questions, "wouldn't she be hurt more if she discovered I lied? Would lying be less hurting than being real?" No matter what your reasons are,it is certain you lied. When you lie, you are now altering the course of your relationship. You are deceiving her and your whole relationship.

• Absence of Trust
  
  There is an absence of trust to your partner if you don't believe that he/she can offer you with the truth. If you are always doubtful with what he tells and shows you. In the event that you can't just agree with his yes and no. In not putting your trust in him, you're simply harming your own self. You will start to think negatively and this will happen again and again until you have totally overlooked how to trust that individual you cherish. In what capacity would you be able to carry on with your existence with the individual you don't trust? You will never discover peace and assurance in continually questioning your partner.

• Possessiveness 
  
  The world doesn't just revolve around you. The people around you are part of that world. So couples ought to live their lives with the people around them not minding their differences . In that capacity, a man ought not  think or act like somebody is going to grab his young lady. I recall a friend whining about her man being excessively possessive. He doesn't want her to hang out with her colleagues due to the fact that there are some young men among them. A relationship requires flexibility for it to develop. You already possess that person you love .If you want to have her forever, then let your relationship grow, give it some freedom. Rather than preventing her from seeing her colleagues, why not go along with them? Try not to detain her in your love since all who are detained, their main wish is to have the capacity to escape from that jail. You don't want her to have the same wish!

• Excessively Demanding
  
  I trust i'm not being subjective here but rather, I think this one is a typical issue with young ladies. Do this,do that. Give me a chance to ask you, do you truly adore this individual? Is it true that you were searching for a partner to love and who will love you back or you were simply searching for a slave to take after your requests? Your partner is not your slave or your pet so don't treat him/her like one. If you need his/her help, then be kind to make such request. In any case, don't just give him a chance to do everything, do your part. Wouldn't you agree that relationship develops better if two individuals do the things together?

• Passiveness
  
  If  we have possessive partners, there are also some passive partners. You are one if you don’t know how to make a good fight for what you desire. You generally look for approval from others. For example, your parents don't care about your girlfriend for some reasons. In films with this sort of story, regularly the man battles for the young lady. All things considered, would you do likewise? What would you do for the individual you adore and to save your relationship? Don't just live her in the dream you created in her mind when you first told her "I adore you". Make that dream  a reality.

• Unappreciative
  
  One thing I've learnt in my past relationship is never to regret the things i have done for someone i once loved. But, isn’t it more fulfilling if that person also appreciates the things you've done for him/her? Seriously, you don’t always have to return the favor because,for a man who's in love, a simple hug or kiss could be more than enough. Your simple "thank you" could effectively mean a great deal. You don't need to say those sweet words "I cherish you", simply demonstrate it through your activities. Particularly to young ladies, activities/actions speaks louder than words. Else, she will start to think as you don't adore her.

• Inconsiderate
  
  Now and again our partners make promises which may not be put into realization. Before you make your judgment, make sure you give utmost consideration to every reason he or she has. Else, you are being inconsiderate.Just like when your boyfriend cannot pick you from work and drive you home because he has to finish his presentation for his meeting the next day. It's fine to be disturbed when he can't keep his promise, however be sensible. Weigh the fact that he has substantial reasons. You live in the realm of reality so be reasonable. Besides,he maybe doing this for the future of both of you. He’s already carrying a lot of pressure from his other responsibilities. Don’t add anymore of it, he might no longer be able to carry it all.
  
  In reality, nobody is flawless and there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. In any case, this doesn't give you a reason to act naughty. Reassess yourself: Am I creating our relationship to break? Am I putting our relationship into danger? It hasn't gotten to the point of no return. There is always a room for improvement.
  
  Am i missing something? Don't you agree with me? Speak your mind........