The Bitter Truth

Waking up this morning to see this pics as an encouragement, it motivated me on how I need to pick up myself everyday and work hard.

I hear  young ladies cry about no jobs.Yes! there are no jobs but the question is,
What can you do?
What have you tried to do?
What motivates you?
What do you see?

On the pics, you can see an elderly woman in her beautiful canoe, firewood, fry pan and all the necessary things she needs to make her daily bread. She sells akara and bread and the unique thing about her, is that she paddles to meet her customers.

I guess, when she started she waited for them to come and saw that the outcome was low and she changed her strategy to get better result. You can't use the same approach everyday and expect to get a different result, you have to change your approach.

A woman is expected to work, take care of children and also manage the affairs of the house but these days I hear things like,
''I want a ready made man, ready made man can lead to ready made trouble''

Mama is happy doing what she knows best in order to survive. She didn't give excuses like age barrier and all.
You! what is your excuse?

Hard work pays with time........you know.
Just hold on, constant effort goes along way with the help of God.
''little drops of water makes a mighty ocean''.

Ladies, its high time we stopped deceiving ourselves and tell ourselves the truth, judge yourselves and start somewhere, no matter where.

Y'all know that adding value to yourselves will attract your dream men. Men that will respect and treat you like the angel you are. 
Like the saying goes, like minds attracts each other.

All hail the Niger Delta ladies,we dey try....
Inspired by my big sister, Inemo .C. Dokubo and my smally Esther Dima.
They are always there to motivate me.....